Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Much needed getaway

Life hasn't been easy for about 2 years now.  TJ's schedule is insane.  We can never plan anything.  I've never seen anyone work so much!  And it's not like he has a choice in the matter either.  The military isn't like a normal job with normal hours.  I don't know how he is still functioning - I would have thrown in the towel long ago.  But, we did find out at the last minute that he would have Memorial Weekend off - wahoo!!  He had been flying so many weekends, I don't really remember when he had a day off, so it was just so exciting to know he had 3 WHOLE DAYS OFF! 

We decided we wanted to go to Destin for the weekend.  I've never seen more beautiful beaches than on the Gulf Coast.  The only problem was everything was booked.  But, we found a steal of a deal that only cost us an arm and a leg and we were off!  It was worth it.  The kids had a blast and we did too.

The first jump into the gulf - we didn't waste anytime.  As soon as we arrived we threw on our swimsuits and off we went.  The waves were a little rough.


 We spent 2 glorious days laying on the sand and playing in the water.  The last day was spent at the pool trying to get all the salt off us.

 Isn't that turquoise water exquisite??!!
 We let the kids do any activity they wanted.  This was the European bungee jump thingy.


 Then they decided they wanted to do the zip line.  I was a little nervous as I watched my two most precious possessions climb all the way to the top and jump off a building...but they had a blast.




 Brena kickin' back enjoying her post zip line treat - I can't get over those long legs of hers!  I wonder where she gets those from??!!
 My sweet boy who is happiest on vacation.

 The firework show!
What a glorious weekend it was!  It's sad to think that next Memorial weekend we will be without our daddy once again.

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Tyler earns his Bobcat

Tyler earned his Bobcat at the pack meeting tonight along with his nutrition pin and belt loop.  He loves scouts! 
 The tradition is for your dad to hold you upside down and shake you when you earn your Bobcat.  Well, of course TJ is never around, so there was another father who volunteered to do that one because there is no way I could lift that kid and shake him!!
We had a fun pack meeting on staying healthy and eating healthy.  What a fun night it was!
 Push up station - go Tyler!
 Sit up station.  I think he was moving his neck more than sitting up.

Friday, May 20, 2011

Change of Command

I love the NAVY.  Sometimes I don't like the life, but I do love the NAVY.  I love all the traditions, the pride I feel whenever I see our flag, or my husband in his uniform - which lucky me is every day :) 

One of the traditions we got to participate in this week was a Change of Command.  In the P3 world, this happens every year.  It's a big deal.  Last year it happened on deployment, so the families at home didn't get to participate.  This was actually my first Change of Command.  I loved it.  I actually cried.  Just seeing the flags, all the military members in uniform, the band playing our National Anthem, and listening to the speeches really makes me appreciate all the sacrifices the military makes. 

A Change of Command is when the XO - the Executive Officer - takes over as the CO - the Commanding Officer of the squadron.  Then the old CO leaves and goes to a new command.  In our case, our CO will be going to the Air Force War College in Alabama. 

It all started Thursday night when the outgoing CO and his wife hosted a pre-change of command social.  It was at the gorgeous Jacksonville Yacht Club.  The CO and his wife were presented with some gifts and we enjoyed eating and talking with other squadron members and their significant others. 

Then, Friday morning was the Change of Command.  This was held in VP-26's hangar with their planes on display.  The CO, XO, and another distinguished guest spoke.  It was all very moving.

Then, Friday night we had the new CO host the Change of Command party.  It was so much fun.  All the food was just amazing.  They had some company come that had gambling tables - we were given $10,000 in fake money and got to "gamble" with it.  We had craps tables, roulette, blackjack and something else.  I couldn't stay away from the roulette table.  I had a blast playing with that fake money!  I've never gambled and now I know why - because I couldn't stop!  What a wonderful weekend!  Too bad the next change of command will happen on deployement! 

Oh, and the other reason I love all these events - I get a new dress for each one :)

The band:
 The color guard:
 The outgoing CO speaking:
 VP-26 hangar and one of their planes:
 Us :)  I sure love seeing my hunk in his dress whites!!

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

14 years!

Happy 14 year anniversary to us!  Because of TJ's crazy work schedule, we really don't get to celebrate things much around here.  But, we did have some fun reminiscing about the past and our wonderful lives together.  I'm looking forward to next year, because we might actually be able to make some plans and finally get to do something I've been wanting to do forever!

Brena loves to hear our story of how we met, and for a while I was having to tell it to her every night.  I love being in love, being married, and our crazy life together - even if the NAVY does control every aspect of it!

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Scouts - Rocket Derby

I'm so behind in my blogging!  This was from Tyler's first Pack Meeting.  They did a rocket derby and made their "I'm a Mormon" commercials and posters.  It was a lot of fun.  This was the first night I took Brena out after her sickness.  She did ok - everyone commented on how skinny she looked.  It was nice to get out of the house!

At this pack meeting Tyler earned his chess pin and belt loop and some rocket pin.  He is thoroughly enjoying scouts.


 He shot his rocket off and it landed in the trees across the parking lot.
 Can you see his little orange parachute man in the top of the tree?

Sickness hits our house

This is going to be one long post!  For 3 weeks I had the sickest kid I've ever seen.  It all started on April 9.  We noticed Brena's neck was getting a big bump on the side.  I just thought her allergies were acting up.  The kid has the world's largest tonsils - no joke.  You can't see the uvula in the back of her mouth - it's just attached to her left tonsil.  It's always like that.  Every time she goes to the doctor they tell me she'll grow out of it.  But, Monday night when she wouldn't get off the couch, I knew something was wrong.  We went to the doctor Tuesday where they got her temp at 102.7.  The doctor looked at her mouth and said she had "a raging case of tonsillitis and strep."  He put her on Penicillin for 10 days and steroids for 48 hours.  She seemed to do better, then after the steroids were gone her fever shot back up to 103.7 and didn't go down.  She was also still not doing any better.  She didn't want to do anything but sleep. 

We went back to the doctor and he said he was baffled.  He took her off the penicillin and put her on a stronger medicine - Augmentin.    He also sent us up to ENT to make sure she didn't have an abscess on her tonsil - which can be fatal.  Thankfully that was negative.  We went home and she had the augmentin for a few days and she still was not getting better.  Still 103.7 temps and sleeping constantly.  I took her back to the doctor.  Doctor is still baffled.  They say throw the augmentin out, we are putting her on the strongest med they can - clyndimicin (no clue if I'm spelling any of these right).  That was a week after we originally took her to the doctor.  The next morning she wakes up and runs to the bathroom - she says she had an accident.  Oh no - here we go with diarrhea.  I thought it might be a one time thing.  She had thrown up a couple days ago and that just happened once.  Boy oh boy was I ever wrong...
 So, now I think we are over the tonsillitis - finally.  But, she is still have 103.7 fevers, constantly and now we have a new symptom - the diarrhea.  And, this is not just any diarrhea.  She is bleeding, filling toilets full of blood.  Blood dripping down her legs.  Bloody underwear.  The first night it happened TJ was flying.  I called my neighbor over to see what she thought.  Brena was asleep on the couch and her underwear was all bloody.  My neighbor said she would stay with Tyler while I took Brena around the corner to an ER.  That was a really bad night at that ER.  The nurse that did her vitals said he would just wait until the morning and take her back to the base and have her checked, that she would be ok through the night.  They did say stop all medications and not to take anymore.  I was so freaked out.  I couldn't get a hold of TJ - he had no idea this was happening.  I called the squadron and they said they would let him know as soon as he landed.  He finally landed at around midnight.  That was one very long night...

The next day we took her to the doctor where they did a stool test.  It was a 3-5 day wait for the results.  Meanwhile we are having to buy pull-ups for the first time in a few years for the poor child because she literally can't hold it.  It just runs out of her.  If I could tell you how many times a day that kid went to the bathroom - it would be well over 25/day.  It was the most awful experience.  And, it went on like that for 8 DAYS!   We had to set up folding chairs in the bathrooms because she needed us in the bathroom with her.  She would rest her head in your lap while she cried and moaned over the pain in her stomach.  It was so sad.  I cried a lot.  I didn't think I would be able to keep going on like this.  The doctors were telling me this was normal, augmentin can do that to you and it should go away.  Well, it didn't. 

We went back to the ER on base one morning because we felt that she was still not getting any better and we didn't want to go through the weekend without her being seen.  They took another stool sample.  We went back to the doctor on Monday 4/25 and they finally gave us a referral to a Pediatric GI Specialist at a Children's Hospital here in Jacksonville because they didn't know what else to do.

Wednesday 4/27, I get a call from the hospital saying that her stool tested positive for salmonella.  I still can't believe it.  I cannot for the life of me figure out where she could have picked it up.  Yes, you get it from chicken, eggs, reptiles, etc.  It can actually come from almost anything.  But, here's the thing - she didn't go anywhere - she slept on the couch for days without moving.  She didn't eat anything - she lost over 10% of her body weight.  She had bones sticking out where I didn't even know you had bones.  The health department called me on Friday and I had to answer their questions - normal procedure when there is a confirmed Salmonella case.  They couldn't figure it out either.  So, we will never know how/where she got it.  All I can say it I hope to never, ever deal with Salmonella again. 

Now, 3 weeks and 3 days later my little girl is finally normal and eating like a famished prisoner of war.  I am so happy to have a normal life back!   I guess that is until we go in for her tonsilectomy in June...

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Easter

The Easter Bunny made it to our house.  Our Easter Bunny always comes on the Friday night before Easter so we can have Easter Sunday to celebrate the true reason of Easter.  Brena was still really sick, so TJ stayed home with her.  She was feeling a tad better in the afternoon and went out looking for some eggs.




Sunday, April 17, 2011

My future Eagle Scout

TJ's mom saved his scout shirt - bless her heart - from 1986!  Those things are like $30!  I admit I was cursing  not happy unpicking all the patches off the shirt - there were A LOT of them - but I am grateful she saved it.  How neat is that?  He gets to wear his daddy's scout shirt!  I had to take off every single patch except one.  Even the flag was not in the right spot for nowadays. 
Before:
After:


I don't know much about scouting.  I don't have any brothers, so this is kind of my first experience.  I admit I'm a little worried with it being EVERY Wednesday night - if you read my blog you know how I am about a commitment like that.  But, I'm going to try really hard to keep at this.

Friday, April 8, 2011

Let's Go Fly A Kite

TJ and I actually had a couple hours to our selves one Friday because of late night flights the night before.  When he woke up we went to Target to get some things we needed.  We saw some kites there and thought the kids would love to fly a kite.  We were right, they thoroughly enjoyed themselves!  The weather has been GORGEOUS!



 We did have some problems with them getting stuck in the trees sometimes.   Daddy rescued the kites more than once.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Family fun!

We had a wonderful weekend spending time with family!  Tyler and papa always play chess every time they get together.
 Tyler's new favorite toy - bay blades!
 Tyler and papa in a heated game of basketball!
 Silly girls jumping on the tramp.

We love it when people come to visit us!!